eskybaby 。。。 一只很爱我，很需要我的猫。。。
好久，好久都没有和大家分享 eskybaby 的照片了。。。
你们还记得它吗？这只温驯，粘人，象狗多过象猫的一只猫。你们有想念它吗？
由于最近比较不常在家，所以到家的时候，eskybaby 总会比平时还要更粘我。不管我到家里的哪一个角落，它都会跟着我，寸步不离。
这时，我才明白，我为什么会这么爱这只畜生。我们的关系为什么会这么密切。
“因为它很需要我。“
它很需要我，让我感觉我是世界上最重要的人，并且没有我，它根本不能生存。
其实人与人之间也何尝不是这样？
我们和别人相处的时候，往往都喜欢对方让我们感觉我们在他们的生命里是多么的重要。是人都是这样的啊！喜欢有人确定自己的价值，自己的重要性，自己的有用性，自己在他人的眼里，是否是世界上最特别，最独一无二的。是否自己对他人所付出的一切，都有一一被肯定。
对家人是这样，对朋友是这样，对爱人更是这样。
我觉得如果要和你爱的人有一个健康，密切的良好关系，就要注意这点。
你今天是否告诉了你爱的人，他们在你生命里的重要性呢？
P/S：eskybaby 也有 blog!
It’s been ages since I last posted photos of eskybaby…
Do you guys still remember this manja and attention seeking cat who behaves more like a dog instead?
I haven’t been home a lot these days and when I do come home, eskybaby craves for my attention and company much much more than usual. He literally follows me everywhere I go, without letting me out of his sight.
It was at this moment that I realised why I love him so much.
It is simply because he needs me.
He makes me feel that I am the most important person in his life, that he can’t survive without me.
Often, it is the same for humans as well.
We all want to be the most important person in our love ones’ lives. We all want to be special, useful and appreciated. This is so for kinship, friendship and even more so for romantic relationships.
In fact, I think this is one factor we have to achieve if we want to enjoy a healthy and bonded relationship with our love ones.
Have you told them how important and special they are today?
P/S: eskybaby has a blog too!
